Roles · Impact · optional pack
Spanker
What it is
A Spanker enjoys spanking a partner and other kinds of impact: paddles, floggers, crops, hands.
What it can look like
Over-the-knee spanking. Warming up slowly, then building. A collection of paddles.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Sadist, necessarily. Some spankers love the rhythm and the sound more than the pain.
Doing it safely
Hit the fleshy parts: bum and thighs. Never the spine, kidneys, joints or head. Warm up with lighter strokes first, and keep checking in.
Talking about it
"Would you let me spank you?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.