Roles · Impact · optional pack

Spankee

What it is

A Spankee enjoys being spanked and other kinds of impact.

What it can look like

Going over a partner's knee. The sting and the warmth after. Being "punished" for being cheeky.

Often pairs with

Spanker, Brat tamer.

Not the same as

Masochist, necessarily. Some spankees love the ritual more than the pain.

Doing it safely

Say how hard is too hard before you start. Bruising is common, so think about where marks will show.

Talking about it

"I think I'd like being spanked. Want to find out with me?"

Card no. 35 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.