Roles · Dynamics

Brat tamer

What it is

A Brat tamer enjoys a cheeky, defiant partner and loves putting them in their place.

What it can look like

Calling out the cheek. Playful punishments. Out-smarting the brat. Winning the battle of wills, every time.

Often pairs with

Brat.

Not the same as

Someone who gets angry. Taming is playful and patient. If you're genuinely annoyed, it's time to stop and talk.

Doing it safely

Make sure you know the brat's real safeword, because "no" might be part of the game. Agree what punishments are okay before you start.

Talking about it

"I like a partner with a bit of attitude. Want to see what happens when you push me?"

Card no. 11 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.