Roles · Pain and sensation
Masochist
What it is
A Masochist enjoys receiving pain, in the right setting and from the right person.
What it can look like
Liking a sting, a bite or a hard spank. Enjoying the rush that pain brings. Wearing marks proudly afterwards.
Often pairs with
Sadist, Top, Service top.
Not the same as
Someone who likes all pain. Most masochists love some kinds and hate others.
Doing it safely
Tell your partner which kinds of pain you like and which you don't. Pain can bring a rush that makes it hard to judge your limits, so agree how far to go before you start.
Talking about it
"I actually like a bit of pain. Would you be up for that?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.