Roles · Pain and sensation
Sadist
What it is
A Sadist enjoys giving pain to a partner who wants it.
What it can look like
Spanking, biting, pinching, scratching, wax, floggers. Watching a partner react. Leaving marks they've asked for.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Someone who wants to really hurt people. A Sadist only gives pain that's wanted, and the masochist's pleasure is part of what makes it good.
Doing it safely
Learn where it's safe to hit (fleshy areas) and where it isn't (spine, kidneys, joints, neck). Start soft and build. Check in, and stop instantly at a safeword.
Talking about it
"I'd love to try being a bit rough with you. What kind of pain do you like?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.