Roles · Dynamics
Service top
What it is
A Service top does things to a partner for the partner's pleasure. They do the work, the bottom decides what happens.
What it can look like
Spanking, tying or teasing exactly as asked. Taking requests. Getting off on how much the bottom is enjoying it.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Dominant. A Service top isn't in charge, and that's the point.
Doing it safely
Taking requests doesn't mean doing anything you're not comfortable or skilled with. You have limits too.
Talking about it
"Tell me exactly what you want, and I'll do it."
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.