Roles · Dynamics

Slave

What it is

A slave enjoys structured, ongoing service and obedience to a Master or Mistress. The dynamic often carries on outside the bedroom, as agreed.

What it can look like

Following daily rules. Using a set title for their partner. Asking permission for agreed things. Finding meaning in the structure and devotion.

Often pairs with

Master or Mistress, Dominant, Owner.

Not the same as

Submissive in general. A slave usually wants deeper, longer-term structure than a submissive who plays now and then.

Doing it safely

You still have rights and limits, always. Keep friends and a life outside the dynamic, and make sure there's a regular time to talk about whether it's still working.

Talking about it

"I'd love to give you more control, even day to day. Can we work out what that would look like?"

Card no. 7 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.