Roles · Pain and sensation

Sensation seeker

What it is

A Sensation seeker loves intense physical feelings that aren't really about pain.

What it can look like

Hot wax, ice cubes, feathers, nails, fur or silk. Being blindfolded so every touch is a surprise. Hot and cold together.

Often pairs with

Top, Sadist, Fetishist.

Not the same as

Masochist. Some sensations sting, but for a sensation seeker it's the intensity they're after, not the pain.

Doing it safely

Use body-safe wax made for play, never normal candles. Test heat and cold on your own arm first. Watch out for allergies with oils and materials.

Talking about it

"Want to try a blindfold and see what I can make you feel?"

Card no. 18 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.