Roles · Mind and words
Mind player
What it is
A Mind player enjoys teasing, mind games and control through words and anticipation.
What it can look like
Teasing and denial. Telling a partner what's going to happen, then making them wait. Keeping them guessing. Dirty talk that builds and builds.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Manipulation. Mind play is agreed, and it stays inside the scene.
Doing it safely
Mind games can get under someone's skin. Agree what's off limits, especially anything that plays on real fears or the relationship itself. Clear the air after.
Talking about it
"I love the build-up as much as anything. Want to see how long I can make you wait?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.