Roles · Money · optional pack
Findom
What it is
A Findom (financial dominant) enjoys being given money or gifts by a willing partner, as a form of control.
What it can look like
Receiving "tributes". Wish lists. Controlling a partner's spending in agreed ways.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Scamming. A real findom dynamic is agreed, with limits.
Doing it safely
Agree spending limits, and never take more than someone can afford. Keep your own and your partner's details private.
Talking about it
"Would you enjoy treating me, if I told you exactly what I wanted?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.