Roles · Money · optional pack
Finsub
What it is
A Finsub (financial submissive) enjoys giving money or gifts to someone dominant.
What it can look like
Sending tributes. Buying from a domme or dom's wish list. Letting them decide what you spend.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Being taken advantage of. You set the limits.
Doing it safely
Set a firm budget and never go over it. Watch out for scammers pretending to be findoms. If spending ever stops feeling fun or starts to hurt your life, step back and talk to someone.
Talking about it
"I like the idea of treating someone who's in charge of me. Can we set some limits together?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.