Roles · Dynamics
Caregiver
What it is
A Caregiver nurtures and looks after a partner, often a Little. Many go by Daddy or Mommy.
What it can look like
Gentle rules like bedtimes. Making sure a partner has eaten. Comfort, praise and rewards. Firm but loving guidance.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Anything to do with real children. This is a dynamic between adults, about care and comfort.
Doing it safely
Littles can be in a vulnerable headspace, so check consent while they're in their adult headspace, before play. Watch for them dropping out of the headspace and needing their adult self back.
Talking about it
"I love looking after you. Would you like me to be your Daddy (or Mommy) sometimes?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.