Roles · Power

Switch

What it is

A Switch enjoys both sides, leading and following. Which one depends on the partner, the mood or the day.

What it can look like

Dominant with one partner and submissive with another. Swapping halfway through a scene. Being in charge on Friday and wanting the opposite on Saturday.

Often pairs with

Anyone. Switches fit with Dominants, Submissives and other Switches.

Not the same as

Being unsure. Switches aren't stuck halfway, they genuinely enjoy both.

Doing it safely

Say which side you're on before a scene starts, so nobody's guessing. Limits can be different for each side, so talk about both.

Talking about it

"I like both sides. Want to take turns?"

Card no. 3 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.