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Non-monogamist

What it is

A Non-monogamist is open to more than one partner, sexually, romantically or both, with everyone's knowledge.

What it can look like

Open relationships. Polyamory. Play partners outside a main relationship. Swinging.

Often pairs with

Hotwife, Cuckold, Bull, Voyeur.

Not the same as

Cheating. Everyone involved knows and agrees.

Doing it safely

Talk often and honestly. Agree the rules and stick to them. Regular sexual health tests are a must.

Talking about it

"How would you feel about opening things up a bit?"

Card no. 32 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.