Roles · Feeding · optional pack

Feeder

What it is

A Feeder enjoys feeding a partner: the care, the closeness and watching them enjoy it.

What it can look like

Hand-feeding. Cooking big meals. Spoiling a partner with treats.

Often pairs with

Feedee.

Not the same as

Controlling someone's eating against their will.

Doing it safely

Let your partner lead on how much and how often. Health comes first, always.

Talking about it

"I love feeding you. Can I spoil you tonight?"

Card no. 45 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.