Roles · Watching and being watched

Exhibitionist

What it is

An Exhibitionist enjoys being seen, whether that's showing off their body or being watched with a partner.

What it can look like

Sharing spicy photos with people who want them. Dressing to show off. Play where others can watch, with everyone's okay.

Often pairs with

Voyeur.

Not the same as

Flashing people who didn't agree. Everyone watching has to want to watch.

Doing it safely

Public sex and exposure are illegal in the UK, so stick to private places or adult venues. Think about who can save or share your photos, and keep your face and identifying details out of them.

Talking about it

"I kind of love the idea of being watched. Would you want to watch me?"

Card no. 26 in Collared’s deck

Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.