Roles · CNC · optional pack
CNC giver
What it is
A CNC giver enjoys playing the one who carries on while a partner pretends to resist, in a scene that was fully planned and agreed beforehand.
What it can look like
A planned scenario where the partner says "no" in character. Staying in role while they struggle. Stopping the instant the real safeword comes.
Often pairs with
Not the same as
Real non-consent, ever. Without the planning, the limits and the safeword, it's a crime, not a kink.
Doing it safely
Plan everything first: what happens, what's off limits, the safeword and a non-verbal signal. Build up trust before trying it. Debrief afterwards, every time.
Talking about it
"I've got a fantasy I'd only ever want to try if we planned it really carefully. Can we talk about it?"
Basics covers consent, safewords, limits and aftercare for every role.